Having and Holding

At work today, we had a double surprise shower for two beautiful, young brides-to-be , who are soon getting married just a week apart from one another. Cake and best wishes! And blushing brides, too!

I know you’d rather see photos of the actual event, but nobody wants their photo floating around the internetisphere without approval. At least I don’t. So this tea towel will be the hostess photo for this blog.

This is a bit of my vintage kitch’n collection, although I assure you that it was not a gift showered on me. The tea towel is funny now, but I am guessing that the original recipient was on the fence about its humor. Because it is in such good condition, she obviously didn’t love and use it. But she didn’t burn it, either.

I wish I’d had the forethought to keep some of our quirkier wedding gifts. I wish I hadn’t donated/yard-saled/otherwise-vanished them. I would love to be chuckling about my tray and coaster set decorated with butterflies pressed under glass. Truth be told, if I find a duplicate set at a garage sale, I’m throwing down a buck or two.

My advice to the newly married? If you don’t still love it, but you can store it, please do. Leave it alone, even when you think WHAT were were THINKING? And one day, you’ll find it all charming and nostalgic, and you’ll be so happy to have a piece or two of your first days — together.

I promise this is good advice: Have and hold.

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About Ginny O'Donnell

After reading a really nice obituary a few years ago, I considered what they'll write about me. "She worked all day, then went home and made supper." Except now, my husband has retired, so he makes the supper. Hm. I sound kinda lazy, but I'm always busy. You'll see. Part 2: I like my original About Me, so I'm keeping it intact. But now I, too, am footloose. Let's see what happens next, shall we? Part 3: Just to keep everything in perspective, I'm keeping parts 1 and 2 intact. Now, I am actively and happily NOT so footloose, doing my thing over at Cottage Door Press. And with it being off its training wheels, I will pick up my ginnygram pen again. Love!

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  1. Or one day your children will either want it or laugh at it!

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